It makes more sense for one to build his/her own normal. I do not see the point of doing things as per others’ perception. This is akin to being blind as per my perspective. Accepting when others label one is akin to one being lost. To have own perspective, it is worthwhile for one to leave the crowd and one will be able to find himself or herself along the way. This will allow one to create his or her normal which I believe to be beneficial to himself or herself.
WTK