I learn one phrase which sounds reasonable and clear.
“If one listens to other’s opinions and follows accordingly, one will be other’s slave forever”
I pondered further the back meaning of the above phrase and fully agree with the analogy. I tend to be bothered by other people’s opinion and will change the initial decision to suit these people’s feedback. Since then, I no longer follow other people’s opinion and follow how my heart goes. I will not regret the consequence of my heartfelt decision and be responsible for the outcome. I feel that I am more happier by following my personal heart and it makes myself more fulfilling and satisfied with myself.
Once I make my decision, I will look forward and execute my plan accordingly. There is no point looking back and ponder how the outcome of the decision will unravel or wonder the outcome of the other decision which I chose not to take.