I get to know from a blogger who mentioned that it is better to rely on oneself rather than others. This blogger is a lady who initially believed that her rest of her life will be taken care when she marries the “right” partner and rely on this partner. Indeed, she got married and does not bother with her finance. However, things happen beyond her expectation and her marriage ended in divorce. She had to fend for herself. It was only the time which she realised on the importance of financial freedom. She makes the decision in accordance to her preference. These are some of the actions which she has taken to improve her finance and embark on the route of financial independence whilst having the best of her time in doing the things of her interest.
Based on the details mentioned in the above-listed link relating her blog, I opine that she is making the right decision and lives her life on her term and condition.